So what does FIT look like?
It’s crazy as I was having this conversation today with my daughter about what is beautiful to them? What does it mean to be beautiful? She was talking about some girls who were looking at her a certain way and she felt like they were talking about her. So I said did they say anything bad to you? She said No. So I said well how did you know they were talking bad about you? She said, “I don’t know?” So I thing began to say to her they may have been admiring you, saying how beautiful you are, or saying wow would love to hang out with that girl. As a society we have created this image of what everyone should look like. What beautiful is and what it looks like. We have done the same thing with being Fit. We have created this image of what FIT looks like. But really what does it mean to look fit? Everyone has this common image in their head of what being FIT looks like. We compare ourselves to models and other images that social media has placed on us of what being FIT should look like.
I use to have the same image in my head of if I lose at least 20 more lbs then I will finally be FIT or look FIT. As I continued to work out and continued to fluctuate in weight I realized that I was chasing a destination an image and not a way of living.
When I began this fitness journey I expected to look a certain way but as I continued to follow along with the journey I realized that fitness is not just physical. Fitness is a way of living, its creating a lifestyle that is healthy both physically, mentally, spiritually, emotionally. When I began cross training more and really lifting weights I noticed my body was changing. I wasn’t skinny like I use to be, I was becoming as they would say “thick.” In my head I kept saying, “Fe you need to lose weight, you need to be in this size” Then I realized as I was putting my clothes on one day that my pants size was actually smaller than the size I was in before. I realize, “Fe you are healthy, you are strong now.” That is when it dawned on me that FIT doesn’t mean you are suppose to be certain size, it means that you are free of disease, you are healthy in both mind, body and spirit. I also began to realize the more that I focused on creating a healthy lifestyle for myself and my girls the more I became FIT.
So what does FIT look like for me?
You are looking at her……Healthy and Happy Person:)